In jewellery, some designs are admired for their beauty. Others are treasured for what they represent.
The Toi Et Moi ring belongs firmly in the latter.
French for “you and me,” the Toi Et Moi ring is defined by two stones set side by side, a poetic symbol of two souls, two stories and one shared future. At Gregory Jewellers, this enduring design is reimagined through our Leyla Rose By Gregory Harmony Collection, a modern expression of connection, balance and love.
What Is a Toi Et Moi Ring?
A Toi Et Moi ring features two centre stones set together, rather than a single solitaire. Each stone represents one half of a couple — the you and the me — coming together as one.
While traditionally associated with engagement rings, the design is beautifully versatile. Today, Toi Et Moi rings are chosen for engagements, anniversaries, milestones and meaningful self-gifting moments alike.
At its heart, it’s a design that celebrates partnership… not perfection.
The Romantic History of the Toi Et Moi Design
The Toi Et Moi ring carries a rich romantic legacy. Its most famous appearance dates back to 1796, when Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to Joséphine de Beauharnais with a two-stone ring, a gesture that cemented the design as a symbol of enduring love.
Centuries later, the sentiment remains unchanged. While styles evolve, the meaning of two stones united has never faded, making Toi Et Moi rings truly timeless, not trend-driven.
A Tale of Two Stones
What makes the Toi Et Moi design so compelling is its ability to tell a personal story through contrast and harmony.
The two stones may be:
- Matching in size and cut for symmetry
- Different shapes for visual interest
- A diamond paired with a gemstone for colour and meaning
Popular pairings include oval and pear, emerald and radiant, or diamond with sapphire or emerald.
Balance is key. When designed thoughtfully, the two stones complement rather than compete, much like the relationship they represent.
The Harmony Collection
Leyla Rose By Gregory’s Harmony Collection is our interpretation of the Toi Et Moi design, crafted to reflect connection, individuality and refined craftsmanship.
Each ring in the collection is designed to feel intentional and deeply personal, with carefully considered proportions and settings that allow both stones to shine together. Whether you’re drawn to subtle contrast or bold individuality, the Harmony Collection offers a canvas to tell your story, your way.
A Toi Et Moi ring is more than a design choice, it’s a reflection of connection, individuality and shared meaning.
Explore the Harmony Collection at Gregory Jewellers and discover a modern expression of you and me.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does “Toi Et Moi” mean?
Toi Et Moi” is French for “you and me.” In jewellery, it refers to a ring design featuring two centre stones that symbolise two individuals coming together as one.
Are Toi Et Moi rings just a trend?
Not at all. While their popularity has grown recently, Toi Et Moi rings date back to the 1700s and are considered a timeless design with enduring meaning.
What makes a Toi Et Moi ring meaningful?
Each stone can be chosen to represent something personal — birthstones, favourite colours, heirloom gems, or symbolic stones such as diamonds for strength or emeralds for growth.
Can I mix diamonds and gemstones?
Absolutely. One of the defining features of the Toi Et Moi design is its flexibility. Pairing a diamond with a gemstone allows for beautiful contrast and deeper personal significance.
Which stone shapes work best?
Popular combinations include pear, oval, emerald and marquise cuts. The best pairing is one that reflects balance and speaks to your story.
